Posts
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Lovers (the Movie), Boredom, and Where Are You?
As a couples therapist, I have an interest in things that have to do with... -
Intimacy in Couples and Couples Therapy
Intimacy is an issue that comes up for many couples in couples therapy. How intimate... -
Do I Have to Talk About Sex in Couples Therapy?
Many couples come to couples therapy to talk about a problem in their relationship. Sometimes... -
Will It Be Important to Talk About Sex in Couples Therapy?
There are many valuable books about sex, sex therapy, and their role in a couple's... -
Two Strikes in Couples Therapy
This feels like the most controversial topic to write about. There is no known research... -
Reciprocity and Intimacy in Couples Therapy
Intimacy can be defined in many different ways. One expectation that seems to often come... -
A Way to Think about Your Sexual Relationship
I continue to read David Schnarch, this time working on Constructing the Sexual Crucible. It... -
Working On a Better (Sexual) Relationship
Couples can have difficulties in one area of their relationship (sex, for example) that affects... -
Crucible and Couple’s Therapy
“Crucible” is a term that is not used so much currently. It means (from a...