Establishing Healthy Boundaries
Do you find it hard to say no? If you have to change your plans do you feel guilty or that you are letting others down? Would you rather keep your feelings to yourself so you don't "make waves"? These are common feelings for many people. Fortunately, p...
Social Media Do’s and Don’ts
Almost everyone is on social media today, whether it’s Facebook, Pinterest, Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, Linkedin, Tumblr, or etc. We all use it for different purposes, but the most common is to connect with people. Sometimes it can be easy to g...
Sugar and Mental Health
Results from an ongoing study in London that were just published in the scientific journal "Nature" reveal that sugar consumption may have a direct impact on our mental health. The study followed approximately 10,000 individuals who were initially recr...
Social Media’s Impact on Our Health
Social networking sites (SNS) were created following development of the arpanet to later become known as the internet. Initially, an SNS was defined as a virtual community that offered its members the ability to network and share media content. Unlike ...
Bibliotherapy and the Bible: Benefits and Pitfalls in Psychotherapy
For many people seeking psychotherapy, having a therapist of the same faith is mandatory. For others, it is simply preferred. As a Christian therapist, I have learned that bibliotherapy can be very helpful to my Christian clients.
In coupl...
How To Get Better Sleep When You Have Anxiety
When was the last time you had a good night’s sleep? If you have anxiety, chances are it’s been awhile. Anxiety is notoriously known for disrupting sleep, which can start a vicious cycle of more anxiety about not sleeping leading to even mo...
A Clean Slate
Marie and Luke were in unfortunately familiar territory in this fight. Mostly they got along okay; but then something relatively small would happen and it would seem to set off a bigger fight. It was if the fight was about something bigger than what t...
Lovers (the Movie), Boredom, and Where Are You?
As a couples therapist, I have an interest in things that have to do with couples. A new movie, Lovers, is about a long-time couple in which both people are having affairs but their own relationship starts to sizzle again. There was a revie...
Parents: You’re Not Your Child’s Best Friend
I have worked with numerous families through the years, especially families of tweens and teens. If I never heard the following phrase again, especially coming from a mother or father of a teenager, I’d die one happy therapist:
“We...
Parental Mental Illness
Mental illness in families can be very challenging for everyone involved. Mental illness is a complicated disease to understand, let alone to cope with. Much more is known about mental illness now than it was decades ago, however, it is still difficult...
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It’s wonderful when treatments lead to major success and character change, but I will go out on a limb and assume that...