College Students and Mental Health
College Students & Mental Health Most of us can recall our college days and experiences as being some of the best times of our lives. Many college graduates can reflect on the time as the introduction of “adulthood”; freedom, or if you ...
What are Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors?
Body-focused repetitive behaviors are difficult to define. trichotillomania (hair-pulling) was only included in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) in 1987, while excoriation "skin-picking" disorder was only added in the fifth edition in 2013. ...
Common Relationship Mistakes and Solutions
Johannes Kieding, LMSW
Common Relationship Mistakes and Solutions
If you desire more fulfillment in your relationships, if you want a sense of closeness, togetherness, and less emotional isolation and friction with those you c...
What Does My Child Need From Me?
Parenting is the hardest job on Earth. As a licensed child therapist and mother of three, I have been trained in numerous evidenced-based therapies to intervene with my children in an effective way. Despite all of this, there still times when I ask mys...
I Love Him Most of the Time
Blake Lively loves Ryan Reynolds all the time, despite what she says.
Blake Lively was quoted as saying: “I am in love with him most of the time,” describing her love for her husband, Ryan Reynolds.
Lively’s claim that she loves Reynolds most of the time...
Reunification Therapy
Reunification Therapy is a fairly new court ordered therapeutic intervention which aims to reunite and reconcile a parent with their estranged children. It is so new that most established therapists feel nervous about taking on these cases. There...
The Function of an Eating Disorder
When friends or acquaintances inquire about my profession, I explain to them that I am a therapist and I specialize in eating disorder therapy. They usually respond with ignorant comments such as, ” They just need to eat in moderation.” The...
The Superpower of Recognizing Emotions
Most of us have experienced painful emotions in life. We have felt feelings we would prefer not to feel. Emotions such as sadness and fear often feel very uncomfortable: they cause our bodies to feel sensations like tightening in the chest and throat, ...
Five Questions to Ask Oneself When a Relationship Ends
Every person reacts differently when a relationship comes to a close. Some do not want to even think of another relationship and others want to start (or already started) a new relationship ASAP. So, the big question, when are we ready? Are we ever rea...
Heads Up, People. Literally.
I spend a lot of time talking about phones with my clients, especially my younger ones. We’re either discussing the nuances of phone culture - sexting, Snapping, Finsta rules, cyber-bullying, ghosting…..or they show me pictures of their pe...
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The “Make Me Feel Better!” Patient: Omnipotent Transference Resistance, the Pleasure...
It’s wonderful when treatments lead to major success and character change, but I will go out on a limb and assume that...