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The term “soulmate” implies a special affinity, understanding, or powerful bond that exists
between one person and another. The ineffable experience of being known by and knowing
between one person and another. The ineffable experie...
Can You Be Happier?
Happiness has everything to do with your emotional life, including your emotional memories,
but perhaps not in the way you imagine. Happiness, according to the dictionary definition, is “a
state of well-being and contentment” or “a ...
How to Tell the Difference Between Lust and Love
Adapted from Dr. Judith Orloff's Guide to Intuitive Healing: 5 Steps to Physical, Emotional, and Sexual Wellness
As a psychiatrist, I’ve seen how intense sexual attraction is notorious for obliterating common sense and intuition in the most...
The Deeper Meaning of Compassion
Compassion is a word that can feel a bit overused these days. Everyone seems to remind us to be compassionate with ourselves and others. When words are overused, they tend to loose their meaning. But there is immense worth to the concept of compassion ...
A Circle of Safety: Adult Collaboration in Adolescent Treatment
When a teenager requests more privacy, withdraws from her parents, and demands more freedom, we get it. After all, the primary developmental tasks of the adolescent years are separation and individuation. Most responsible adults will respec...
One Simple Tool To Work With Anxiety
Anxiety is a tricky emotion. It is a fearful response to an imagined situation, a self-imposed
deadline, or a hoped-for outcome that is not coming to fruition as quickly as planned. Or it is a
response to a perceived threat that may or may not manife...
Resilience
Some days are just hard! We face mountains that seem to grow and pastures that although appear green, seem to last forever and are not filled with the essentials we need. It is hard to push through in such circumstances and to do so while remaining gro...
Importance of Loving Ourselves
“And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as [you do] yourself.” Leviticus 19:18, AMPC
Today this verse hit me hard. I have read and studied it before now, but in the past, I focused on the portion that talked ...
Mind-Body Connections for Increasing Creative Confidence and Flow
When was the last time you felt self-assured and excited about a current project or
idea and were able to immerse yourself in the process with your full attention?
“Flow” is often defined as the mental state of being completely present an...
Mind-Body Connections for Increasing Creative Confidence and Flow
When was the last time you felt self-assured and excited about a current project or
idea and were able to immerse yourself in the process with your full attention?
“Flow” is often defined as the mental state of being completely present an...
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