Saying it Silently Packs Most Punch
By Marcia Naomi Berger, MSW, LCSW
Do you know how little weight your spoken words can have in a relationship? We might think that what...
In the Time It Takes…
I want to, have to, let those who use infidelity as “self-medication” or revenge know the affect your fleshly selfishness is having on your spouse, significant other, or partner. If you’ve followed this blog, you know that I try to be...
The Eight Cs of a Loving Relationship
Here are some simple tools you can use to improve your love life. And who doesn’t want a
better love life? Just begin to employ these in your relationship, and you will soon see positive
changes.
Care: Showing your partner that you car...
How to Break Up with a Narcissist
(Adapted from Dr. Judith Orloff’s new book “Emotional Freedom: Liberate Yourself From Negative Emotions and Transform Your Life” (Three Rivers Press, 2011) by Judith Orloff...
Living with an Anxious Spouse
Living with an Anxiety Disorder is typically associated with a great deal of personal distress, but
it can be difficult on the partners of those...
Accepting Loss is a Part of Being Free
Loss is difficult to process. It's painful to let go of our cherished relationships and beliefs. Most of us resist loss at all cost. We hold on to relationships that may have run its course. We hold on to behaviors that don't serve us any more, and get...
Longing and Vulnerability
We can experience longing for something we had and lost, or we can long for something
we never had in the first place. A person may already have a partner but long for
something more, or maybe different, that he or she believes will bring fulfillment...
What Is Lust?
Lust may be experienced as intense desire, ardent enthusiasm, or unbridled sexual
longing. This passionate craving is attention directing and a motivational force as is the
experience of any emotion. When untethered, lust can lead to actions that may...
The Gamble of Being Unapologetically Me
The Gamble of Being Unapologetically Me
I believe writing this article is similar to writing the directions to solve a Rubik’s cube
or giving someone the cheat codes to a complex video game. If you’ve ever used a cheat
code or go...
When Your Spouse is Depressed
Dealing with a depressed spouse is not easy. The burden that is carried by one partner often migrates over to the other, and in the end both people may feel depressed and hopeless. According to a study by EAP consultants https://www2.usgs.gov/huma...