The Honor of Trauma Bonds
I may get some flak for my perspective. However, at this point I’ve dealt with this topic to the point that I think I’ve had enough. There is an underlying system of spousal/partner abuse I have observed with many of the couples I see. For ...
Overcoming Infidelity: Reconnecting and Rebuilding
The summer of 2015 the breach of the Ashley Madison cheating website left many marriages affected and even allegedly led to five suicides in the United States and Canada. It left many couples wondering, “Can a marriage be saved after an affair?&r...
“Mundane” is not “Insignificant”
The courtship had been romance-novel perfect. There were grand gestures – he filled her apartment with long-stemmed red roses; she packed a gourmet picnic basket and drove him to a secluded beach. He picked her up after work one ...
Falling In Love Again– -Rekindling the Spark in a Long Term...
Maintaining the love and affection once a relationship is well-established requires
that effort. Often the responsibilities of life, work, and children get in the way and
married couples forget to nurture their relationship. One may begin to feel tha...
The Boys in the Boat—Good Marriage Advice
By Marcia Naomi Berger, MSW, LCSW
What does a great marriage look like to you? A couple living in harmony for a lifetime of romance,...
Testing 1-2-3 Is He (or She) Ready for...
One of life’s biggest events is getting married. If you want to marry, how do you know if he (or she) is right for...
Making Love Last Forever– A Simple Way
Many couples can decrease the need for and cost of therapy, or eliminate it totally, by
establishing a simple routine on their own. Regardless of life’s ups and downs, spouses who are
able to communicate respectfully can increase romance, intim...
Why My Husband is NOT My Other Half
“My husband doesn’t complete me.”
Words once spoken through my own gritting teeth, I now say to my own husband. And he gets it.
I cannot let him hold that responsibility. Through lots of time, education, and my own &...
Four unhealthy communication styles that can predict divorce.
Communication issues happen to be one of the top reasons couples find themselves in counseling. Having healthy communication is vitally important in order to...
Living with an Anxious Spouse
Living with an Anxiety Disorder is typically associated with a great deal of personal distress, but
it can be difficult on the partners of those...