Having Privacy Vs. Keeping Secrets In Relationships: What’s The Difference?
Having Privacy Vs. Keeping Secrets In Relationships: What’s The Difference?
One of the most common areas of couples’ struggles is determining how open and transparent they want to be, and will be, in their relationship. There is of...
What Is Lust?
Lust may be experienced as intense desire, ardent enthusiasm, or unbridled sexual
longing. This passionate craving is attention directing and a motivational force as is the
experience of any emotion. When untethered, lust can lead to actions that may...
Inner Compass: Tuning In
As we learned in my last post Inner Compass: Inner Child, emotions can help us make choices by giving us a vital compass that tells us where to go and who to get involved with. If we follow the directions of our inner compass, then we can make cho...
Is Emotional Openness the Key to Healthy Relationships?
Is Emotional Openness the Key to Healthy Relationships?
Have you ever been at a social event, whether a hosted dinner, picnic, party, what-have-you, and you meet someone who is obviously intelligent, well educated, and successful? You fully expect an ...
Is it Jealousy or Envy?
Are you experiencing jealousy or envy?
Mary Lamia, Ph.D.
Are you craving attention from a person whose focus is on someone else? Do you desire attributes that are possessed by another? When you experience jealousy or envy, you have measured your...
Using Mind-Body Connections to Increase Positive States of Mind
By Renee Podunovich
“I’ve been able to show that fear closes down our minds and our hearts, whereas positive emotions literally open our minds and hearts… they really change our mindsets and our biochemistry” –Dr. ...
What is the Best Emotion?
A few weeks ago, I wrote a post about what I thought was the worst possible emotion. There are certainly enough worthy aspirants including hate, anger, and sadness. But I felt regret was the winner (or should I say loser) because its causes c...
How to Avoid Being Emotionally Drained by the News
Many of us have ups and downs. We all encounter both good and bad things during the day. Sometimes it can be more of...
How Control Could Be Killing Your Relationship
“We communicate worse than anyone I have ever seen. I thought my parents were bad…I never expected we would end up here. Every attempt I make to understand her is shot down with more criticism, hate, and blame than I think I’ve ever ...
Longing and Vulnerability
We can experience longing for something we had and lost, or we can long for something
we never had in the first place. A person may already have a partner but long for
something more, or maybe different, that he or she believes will bring fulfillment...